Well, i've figured how.
ive created two attributes.
an aimPosPP, and an aimAxisPP.
[codebox]particleShape1.aimAxisPP=<>;
float $Zloc[] =xform -q -a -ws -t Z\_loc;
vector $Zlocv= <> ;
particleShape1.aimPosPP=$Zlocv;
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Z_loc is the locator that I am aiming at.
ive then use the aimAxisPP as aimAxis and aimPosPP as aimPosition in the instancer rotation option