first, thanks to tim for the expression- this is similar to what i had been doing, but it is a little more streamlined than building a cache node and getting the values from those nodes. not sure if it is as quick in calculation. one note, i believe that your "string" declarations should be floats since you are getting numerical values from those fields.
as far as why use exp over dynamics, i believe it is faster and more predictable to make an absolute expression. on the downside, it might be a bit more robotic and perfect (which would be a negative in organic applications).
finally, the solution i'm looking for would be more dynamic, operating in real time as i drag the "parent" node in space- all of these solutions require keyframes to be set for any "delay" data to be gathered and piped into the "children." is there even a way to do such a thing? it might require a scriptjob.
anyway, thanks for the input.