You cant. a nurbs surface sis always square. However that doesn't mean you cant do what your asking just the attachment bit is impossible. In fact you soudl nt think of this as separate bbut rather as different primitive parts.
This is mainly a thing about how you have experienced the world thusfar. you think things should be attached because they are the same. Well f you take any realworld object you will notice that thi sis a limitted way of thinking, most objects aren't attached together as one part hey hjust stick together causing the illusion.
So 3ds sense of object is much closer to how things are manufactured that how they appear o beginners.