yeah, thats pretty much what i ended up doing in the end, i was just hopeing there was a more intuitive way without all the extracting, mirroring, deleting, merging, etc etc!!
so i take it that you cant copy uv's from one object to another, unless they are exactly identical, cause thats annoying, for example, if the left arm is only slightly different in that it has a few extra vertices to change the shape slightly. i wouldnt be able to just use the uvs from the other arm and change them slightly, but would instead have to generate and tweak a whole new set of UV's....cause that stinks! it really does. surely this should be possible.
well, thanks for the reply.
leach